"There is a theory which states that if ever anyone discovers exactly what the universe is for and why it is here, it will instantly disappear and be replaced by something even more bizarre and inexplicable. There is another theory which states that this has already happened."
- Douglas Adams
As you are here, it is most probably because you are looking for a ceremony that focuses on what’s important for you. Whether it is a wedding or a funeral, I work very closely with people to create and facilitate moments where meaning is given space to reveal itself and to be expressed with integrity and compassion. Weddings and funerals share the same elements of joy, sadness, friendship, humour, love, regret and hope as our lives are full of all of these things. Beginning with spending time with you, talking and listening to you with all of these elements in mind, my ceremonies are then custom-designed to reflect your wishes.
Aside from conducting ceremonies, I am also an artist and a musician. I play the saxophone in a very busy and very cool 6-piece band called The Meanies – soul, funk, rock, northern soul and ska playing festivals, pubs, clubs and parties. I also make and sell my own chess set to order and, over the years, have developed a deep interest in ceramics and have built a pottery studio in my back garden for exploring this next step.
Humanism and I...
I have always ticked the 'None' box when asked about my faith, but I didn't know that I had a humanist outlook on life until I wanted to celebrate my two children's arrival into the world. A lovely guy from what was then the British Humanists Association came along and delivered the most wonderful, personal and meaningful naming ceremonies. I understood at once this is how ceremonies should be and knew that I wanted to become a celebrant. And here I am! It was the best thing I have ever done; a truly humbling and transformative experience that never fails to make me feel enormously privileged.
I love what I do and am passionate about people, writing and delivering the best ceremonies I can.
A Note About Style...
I would describe my style as relaxed and natural, and in much the same bearing as I am normally. The important factor for me is that a ceremony is authentically written and delivered with integrity, whether it is a celebration of marriage or a celebration of someone's life.